Perhaps no subject brings a man to his knees as fast as that of penis size. It is ingrained in men from the time they hit puberty that penis size is important. Not just in terms of satisfying a woman, but in terms of being a man, period. This warped reasoning is further impressed upon young men as they watch porn and see men who are sporting erections that dwarf what they could ever possibly have. This becomes even worse when they shower in the locker room, and there is inevitably that one guy who looks like he’s strapped a fire hose to his waist. Penis size can mean a lack of confidence in a man, even if he falls right into the category of “average”.
Unfortunately, we have a problem with being perfectly honest in this country. This is especially true when it comes to issues of sex. While it may say absolutely nothing about your worth as a man to have a small penis, it can make a difference in the bedroom. The old mantra of “size doesn’t matter” is quite simply a fallacy. Anonymous studies and polls have shown time and again that size is very important to a woman when it comes to intercourse. Extra size not only feels better (to a point–there is such a thing as being too large), but it increases the woman’s excitement, and it makes the man feel more confident. All of this contributes to a better sexual experience.
Perhaps much more important than the actual length of your penis, is how you feel about it. If your penis is above average, but you feel like it’s too small, than it is too small. That’s really all it comes down to. If you can present your penis like it’s something you’re proud of, that will make a lot of difference when it comes to your partner’s enjoyment of sex. But if you’re hiding away, and refusing to undress until the lights are off, chances are you won’t be doing much to excite your partner, no matter the actual length of your member.
Of course, no matter the size of your penis, there are ways to improve your sexual technique to the point where it becomes a non-issue (as long as it isn’t taking a hefty toll on your confidence). Learn to perform oral sex like a demon, learn what pleases your partner and how to do it flawlessly. Only a small part of the sexual experience has to do with intercourse, so don’t make it a bigger issue than it needs to be.
Well, this may have been true once upon a time, but it isn’t anymore. There are now penis extenders on the market that have been empirically and scientifically proven to add both length and girth to your penis. They work under a system of gradual tension, which has been used by the medical community for some time with wonderful results. You no longer have to happy with what you were born with: you can choose to go bigger if you want.
